Ultimate Breakup Songs

What good is a love song without the love? That is a very good question Demi Lovato. The truth is it's no good at all. I've been scouring the internet for the best break up songs out there, and so I decided to compile my own list - to hopefully help you through this shitty time.

1. Torn - Natalie Imbruglia

There's nothing where you used to lie, my inspiration has run dry, that's what's going on. Nothings right I'm torn. 

The song for when it's just happened and you feel completely messed up, they've gone and changed right in front of you and now you don't know what to do with yourself. Indulge in some classic 90s.

2. I Try - Macy Gray

Say goodbye and I choke, walk away and I stumble. Though I try to hide it, it's clear. My world crumbles when you are not here.

When you're still in love with them, and you just can't bare to be away from them. You've got to adjust from 'we' to 'me' and you just don't know how.

3. Love The Way You Lie feat Eminem - Rihanna

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn, that's alright because I like the way it hurts. Just gonna stand there and hear me cry. Well that's alright because I love the way you lie.

When you can't see the bad in them, not matter what's in front of you. You'd be with them forever if you could.

4. Only Love Can Hurt Like This - Paloma Faith

I tell myself, you don't mean a thing. And what we got, got no hold on me. But when you're not there I just crumble. I tell myself I don't care that much, but I feel like I die till I feel your touch, only love, only love can hurt like this

When it was only early days and you just tell yourself that you don't care at all, that it means nothing, but really it kills you inside.

5. Don't Speak - No Doubt

Don't speak, I know just what you're saying. So please stop explaining. Don't tell me cus it hurts. Don't speak, I know what you're thinking, and I don't need your reasons, don't tell me cus it hurts.

When you don't want to talk about it anymore because it just hurts too much.

6. Piece of My Heart - Beverley Knight

Take another little piece of my heart now baby, come on and break it, break another little piece of my heart now darling I know you will. You know you got it, if it makes you feel good.

When they keep coming back to you and you keep letting them in, because you still want them back.

7. All Too Well - Taylor Swift

Maybe we got lost in translation, maybe I asked for too much, but maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up, running scared I was there, I remember it all too well. You call me up again just to break me like a promise, so casually cruel in the name of being honest, I'm a crumbled up piece of paper lying here cus I remember it all too well.

Taylor, queen of heartbreak, Swift. This song is all about questioning what went wrong & how you can move on from a relationship that you thought was perfect and had some kind of future. 

8. End of the Road - Boyz II Men

Although we've come to the End of the Road, still I can't let go. Its unnatural, you belong to me, I belong to you

The one for when you're feeling really pathetic, and that you need to be with them & that they're the only person you're ever gonna love.

9. Jar of Hearts - Christina Perri

Who do you think you are? Running around leaving scars, collecting your jar of hearts and tearing love apart. 

For when they've tore your heart up right in front of you.

10. The Scientist - Coldplay

Nobody said it was easy, it's such a shame for us to part. Nobody said it was easy, no one ever said it would be this hard. Oh, take me back to the start. 

The song for when you want to go back to how things were before you knew them, when everything was easy and you're heart wasn't broken, and you were just about to embark on something amazing. 

11. Bring It On Home To Me - Sam Cooke

If you ever change your mind about leaving, leaving me behind. Oh - Oh, bring it to me, bring your sweet loving, bring it on home to me.

For when you tell yourself that they'll change their mind and come back, because lets face it life is really that kind.

12. Im Not The Only One - Sam Smith

You and me we made a vow, for better or for worse, I can't believe you let me down and the proof is in the way this hurts. For months on end I had my doubts, denying every tear, I wish this could be over now but I know that I still need you here.

When you know that you shouldn't be with them but you still can't bare to not be with them.

13. I Heard It Through The Grapevine - Marvin Gaye

I bet you're wondering how I knew, about your plans to make me blue. For some other guy you knew before, between the two of us guys, you know I love you more.

When you see the end before it gets there, and you're not shocked by it. You tell them that you still love them but you know that they want someone else.

14. Landslide - Fleetwood Mac

Well I've been afraid of changing, cause I've built my life around you. But times makes you bolder, even children get older, and I'm getting older too.

When you've simply grown apart and being together now longer does each other any good.

15. The Story of Us - Taylor Swift

This is looking like a contest, of who can act like they care less. But I liked it better when you were on my side. The battle's in your hands now, but I would lie my armour down, if you'd say you'd rather love than fight. So many things that you wished I knew, but the story of us might be ending soon.

When you run into your ex and things still haven't changed, feelings are still there and you could work things out if you could both sacrifice your pride. 

16. Last Kiss - Taylor Swift

And I hope the sun shines, and it's a beautiful day and something reminds you, you wish you had stayed. You can plan for a change in the weather and time but I never planned on you changing your mind.

For when you just want to know what went wrong and how you can't believe that this has come to an end. And you wish them the best even though they broke your heart.

17. Shoulda Woulda Coulda - Beverley Knight

How I wish I, wish I'd done a little bit more. Shoulda Woulda Coulda means I'm out of time. Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda, can't change your mind. And I wonder, wonder what I'm gonna do, Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda are the last words of a fool.

For when you knew you could have done more to save the relationship.

18. Love is a Losing Game - Amy Winehouse

For you, I was a flame, love is a losing game. Five story fire as you came, love is a losing game. One I wish Id never played, oh what a mess we made, and now the final frame. Love is a losing game.

For when you realise that you were way more invested then they were, and when you tell yourself that you're done with love forever.

19. Yesterday - The Beatles

Why she had to go I don't know, she wouldn't say. I said something wrong now I long for Yesterday.

When you want to pretend it was never over and how you long for how it used to be.

20. Total Eclipse of the Heart - Bonnie Tyler

Once upon a time I was falling in love, now I'm only falling apart. Nothing I can do, total eclipse of the heart. Once upon a time there was light in my life, now there's only love in the dark. Nothing I can say, total eclipse of the heart.

For when your whole world has crumbled and how you can barely get yourself out of bed in the morning.

21. Someone Like You - Adele

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited but I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it. I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded that for me, it isn't over. Nevermind I'll find someone like you, I wish nothing but the best for you too, 'don't forget me' I beg, 'I'll remember' you said. Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead.

For when you still love them but you only want whats best for them; even if it means them being with someone else. 

22. I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself - Dusty Springfield

I just don't know what to do with myself, don't know just to do with myself. Im so used to doing everything for you,planning everything for two, and now that we're through.

When you're readjusting to singledom for the first time in a while. 

23. Say Something - Christina Aguilera & A Great Big World

Say something I'm giving up on you, I'll be the one if you want me too. And anywhere I would've followed you. Say something I'm giving up on you.

For when they just wont fight for you and you can't stay anymore.

24. Don't You Want Me - The Human League

Dont, don't you want me? You know I can't believe it when I hear that you won't see me. Don't. Don't you want me? I know I don't believe you when you say that you don't need me. It's much too late to find, when you think you've changed you mind, you better change it back or we will both be sorry.

For when things have changed and you don't want to believe it and you're begging them to change their minds back (this is probably the lamest you'll feel).

25. Always On My Mind - Elvis Presley

Maybe I didn't treat you, quite as good as I should have. Maybe I didn't love you, quite as often as I should have. The little things I should've said and done. I just never took the time. You were always on my mind.

When you assess the quality of your love and relationship and whether you could've done more, but you promise your SO that you did love them.

26. White Flag - Dido

I know you think that I shouldn't still love you, or tell you that. But if I didn't tell you, well I'd still have felt it, what's the sense in that? And if you live by the rules of it's over, then I'm sure that makes sense. 

For when you still love them and it's been months, so you tell them and say that you'll always love them even if they don't feel the same way back.

27. Wrecking Ball - James Arthur

Don't you ever say, I just walked away I will always want you. I can't live a lie, running for my life, I will always want you. 

When you gave everything you had but it just wasn't enough for them.

28. So Close - John Barrowman & Jodie Prenger

We're so close to reaching that famous happy ending, almost believing that this was not pretend. Lets go on dreaming for we now we are, so close, and still so far. 

For when you both come so close to being together but something comes between you, like maybe you realise your feelings but you both have SO who you also love. There's nothing crueler than the word 'almost'.

29. Not Like The Movies - Katy Perry

If it's not like the movies, that's how it should be. When he's the one I'll come undone and my world will stop spinning, and that's just the beginning...

For when you've had a shitty relationship that was just not like you thought it was going to be.

30. Bubblewrap - McFly

This is the last time, I give up this heart of mine. I'm telling you that I'm a broken man, who's finally realised. You're standing in moonlight but you're black on the inside, who do you think you are to cry? This is goodbye.

For when the person standing in front of you has ripped out your heart but is asking for forgiveness and you just have to walk away no matter how much it hurts.

31. White Blank Page - Mumford & Sons

Tell me now, where was my fault? In loving you with my whole heart. 

For when no matter what you did it just wasn't enough. Sometimes loving someone just isn't enough and it still ends the same way.

32. Red - Taylor Swift

Moving on from him is impossible and I still see it all in my head, loving him was red.

You've tried forgetting them, you've even tried seeing other people, but nothings helped. You've resigned yourself to the fact that you just can't ever get over him.

33. U. N. I - Ed Sheeran

You and I, ended over U and I, and I said that's fine but you're the only one that knows I lied.

When you told everyone that you weren't that bothered about the situation, that you didn't really care and you're totally happy for your ex. But no, you both know that you were lying about that one.

34. Tonight I'm Getting Over You - Carly Rae Jepsen

I wanna touch your heart, I wanna crush it in my hands, make you plead and cry as you give up all the lies. We're not lovers, but more than friends.

When you still want answers but you want to be over them too and the transition is difficult, but you're determined to see yourself through it.

35. My Happy Ending - Avril Lavigne

He was everything, everything that I wanted. We were meant to be, supposed to be but we lost it. All of the memories so close to me just fade away, all this time you were pretending so much for my happy ending.

For when the relationship has come to its end and you accept that even if something is meant to be it's too hard to work at. This is also for when you're letting go of all the memories, bad and good. 

36. I Know You Won't - Carrie Underwood

I know you don't mean to be mean to me, cause when you want to you can make me feel like we belong, we belong. Lately you make me feel all I am is a back up plan I say I'm done and then you smile at me and I forget everything you've said. I buy into those eyes, and into your lies. You say you'll call, but I know you. You say you're coming home but I know you. You say you'll call, but I know you wont.

For when you know how bad things are, but you still love them so you let them do what they do because they apologise. And even though you know that they're not treating you right you just can't walk away.

37. Say My Name - Destinys Child

First of all let me say, I am not the one to sit around and be played. So prove yourself to me, I'm the girl that you claim, why don't you say the things that you said to me yesterday. 

For when you know that that good - for - nothing what's his name is doing the dirty on you and you want him to tell you to your face, rather than just blatantly lie.

38. Kiss Me - Lucy Hale

Kiss me like the first time, leave your lips on mine, I can't remember why, we ever said goodbye. You leave here and you drive home, but baby I know where you wanna go.

You leave here and you drive home, you take a turn down my road, I watch you through my window and hide so you can't see. Don't you know I want you with me, and it ain't just cause I'm tipsy. You can act like it's all over and you don't miss me, or you could just kiss me.

For when you both know that you ended it too soon and even though you're trying to move past it you can't. You tell him to either walk away or start again. But it's time to make a decision.

Lets face it, I could have put the entire of 21 by Adele on this list, or many, many Taylor Swift songs but hopefully these will help you get through this thoroughly shit time. I wish you all the best darling, but I know you're gonna pull through. Keep smiling, cry as much as you need to, but know that you're gonna make it.

The fact that your heart's broken, it just means that you fought for something, and there's no shame in that.

Post Breakup songs (aka. Life is great and I don't need you)

So you've cried your heart out for the person that just couldn't love you back and you've felt utterly pathetic for so long. And then you wake up one day and it doesn't hurt ... or if not, there are songs to help you with that.

You start like this .... 

1. Apologize - One Republic & Timbaland

You tell me that you need me, then you go and cut me down, but wait you tell me that you're sorry, didn't think I'd turn around and say that, it's too late to apologise.

For when you know that you deserve better and you're ready to say that you don't even want to hear their apology.

2. It's Not Right But It's Okay -  Whitney Houston
It's not right but it's okay, Im gonna make it anyway. Pack your bags up and leave don't you dare come running back to me.
He did you wrong and you know it, and instead of being miserable and moping you know you're gonna be okay on your own. Tell that tool to hit the road.

3. We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together - Taylor Swift
I used to think we were forever ever and I used to say never say never... so he calls me up and he's like 'I still love you' and I'm like this is exhausting you know, we are never getting back together, like ever.
For when you can finally tell them that no matter what you'll never get back together, you know you deserve more and you'll be damned if you don't get it.

4. Somebody That I Used to Know - Gotye feat Kimbra
But you didn't have to cut me off, make out like it never happened and that we were nothing ... now you're just somebody that I used to know.
When you're finally past all the shit you went through with someone that just treated you badly, they're part of your past and that's where they're gonna stay.

5. Believe - Cher
Cause I've had time to think it through, and baby I'm too good for you.
The song for when you know that you're far too good for them and you're not even sad about it.

6. Forget You - Cee Lo Green

I see you driving round town with the girl I love and I'm like forget you, guess the change in pocket wasn't enough Im like forget you and forget her too, if I was richer I'd still be with ya, aint that some shit? And although there's pains in my chest I still wish you the best, forget you.

For when you just decide to forget about them and their new skanky girlfriend that isn't a patch on you; you don't need him. 

7. I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor

Go on now go, walk out the door, just turn around now, cus you're not welcome anymore. Weren't you the one who tried to break me with goodbyes, did you think I'd crumble? Did you think I'd lay down and die? Oh no not I, I will survive.

The ultimate eff you to an ex, you know that you're gonna be fine without them because lets face it, you're badass and they tried to break you but you didn't let them. You're super strong girl.

8. Out Of Reach - Gabrielle

Out of reach, so far, I never had your heart. Out of reach, couldn't see, we were never meant to be.

For when you knew you gave your heart to someone who didn't give there's back and it's okay because it just wasn't meant to be. Everything happens for a reason. 

9. Rolling In The Deep - Adele

The scars of your love remind me of us, they keep me thinking that we almost had it all. The scars of your love they leave me breathless, I can't help feeling. 

For when you're past the being mad stage but you just think that you almost had it all but they left before you got there. Its their loss darling!

10. Before He Cheats - Carrie Underwood

I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped for wheel drive, carved my name into his leather seats. Took a louisville slugger to both head lights, slashed a whole in all four tears, maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

Hell hath no fury like Carrie Underwood scorned, the ultimate revenge song. This is for when you're not even mad you just want to get back at someone.

11. Cry Me A River - Justin Timberlake

You were my sun, you were my earth, but you didn't know all the ways I loved you, no. You took a chance, I made other plans, bet you didn't think they'd come crashing down no.

For when he comes back to you wanting a second chance, and you just tell him no. You don't make the same mistake twice.

12. Merry Happy - Kate Nash

Dancing at discos, eating cheese on toast, yeah you made me merry, made me very, very happy but you obviously didn't want to stick around. So I learned from you.

For when you look back and accept that you were happy at the time, and that you can't be mad at them because they just changed their mind. It just taught you that things don't always work out as we plan them to.

13. Right As Rain - Adele

Go ahead and steal my heart to make me cry again, because it will never hurt as much as it did then, we were both right and no one had blame, but now I give up on this endless game

For when you know that you will probably always have feelings for them but you also know that you can't keep going back to them, it's just a game you don't want to play.

14. Listen - Beyonce

I'm more than what, you made of me, I followed the voice you think you gave to me, now it's time I find my own.

Queen Bey. You're standing tall, whatever that guy thinks he's got on you he hasn't. You're strong and you don't need him. 

15. You're So Vain - Carly Simon

You're so vain, I bet you think this song is about you

He's the guy that thinks he can walk into your life and out of it whenever he pleases, and he thinks everything revolves around him. 

16. Foundations - Kate Nash

You said I must eat so many lemons, cus I am so bitter, I said I'd rather be with your friends mate. Cus they are much fitter. 

For when you're not even sad about a relationship ending, you knew it had run its course and you're a lot happier without them.

17. Bulletproof - La Roux

This time baby, Ill be, bulletproof.

You won't let anyone in again that easily, especially not your good for nothing ex, people will have to prove their worth before you let them in. 

18. Too Little Too Late - JoJo

It's just too little, too late, a little too wrong and I can't wait but you know all the right things to say. You say you dream about my face, but you don't like me, you just like the chase. So be real, it doesn't matter anyway. You know its just too little too late.

For when you've been waiting to hear those words for so long & when you've heard them you realise it doesn't make a difference anyway. 

19. Since U Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson

Here's the thing we started out friends, it was cool but it was all pretend. Yeah, yeah, since you been gone. You're dedicated, you took the time, it wasn't long till I called you mine. Yeah, yeah, since you been gone. All you'd ever hear me say was how I pictured me with you, that's all you'd ever hear me say. But since you been gone, I can breathe for the first time, I'm so moving on, thanks to you, now I get, what I want, since you been gone.

For when you look back at the relationship and realise how you've been played since you met them, and now you're shot of them, your life is so much better. 

20. Blow Me (One Last Kiss) - Pink

I think I've finally had enough, I think I maybe think too much, I think this might be it for us, blow me one last kiss, you think I'm just too serious, I think you're full of shit, my head is spinning so blow me one last kiss. 

For when you're happy your relationship is ending because you've realised that you just couldn't do it anymore. You need some fun in your life and you just can't be bothered with it all anymore.

21. Stronger - Britney Spears

Stronger than yesterday, now it's nothing but my way, my loneliness ain't killing me no more. 

For when you know that you've moved on, you're happy alone and you're taking control of your life, and that d-bag doesn't have any place in it anymore.

22. Irreplacable - Beyonce

So go ahead and get gone, call up that chick and see if she's home, oops I bet you thought that I didn't know what did you think I was putting you out for? Because you was untrue, hauling her round in the car that I bought you, baby drop them keys, hurry up before your taxi leaves. Standing in the front yard, telling me how I'm such a fool, talking about how I'll never ever find another man like you. You got me twisted. You must not know about me, you must not know about me, I can have another you in a minute, matter of fact, he'll be here in a minute baby. You must not know about me, you must not know about me, I can have another you by tomorrow so don't you ever for a second get to thinking, you're irreplaceable.

For those times when you're ending it with someone and they tell you that you'll never find anyone better than them. Bitch please, no-one in this world is irreplaceable.

23. So What - Pink

So what? I'm still a rock star, I've got my rock moves and I don't need you, and guess what I'm having more fun, and now that we're done I'm gonna show you tonight, I'm alright, I'm just fine, and you're a tool so. So what I'm still a rock star, I've got my rock moves and I don't want you tonight.

For when you just don't care & that you know you're gonna be better on your own; this for the post crying into a tub of Ben & Jerry's phase.

24. Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You) - Kelly Clarkson

You know the bed feels warmer, sleeping here alone. You know I dream in colour and do the things I want. Think you got the best of me, think you've had the last laugh, bet you think that everything good is gone. Think you left me broken down, think that I'll come running back. Baby you don't know me, cause you're dead wrong.

For when you feel that you're stronger without him.

25. Really Don't Care - Demi Lovato & Cher Lloyd

You had your shot, had your shot, but you let go. Now if we meet out on the street I won't be running scared, I'll walk right up to you and put one finger in the air. And make you understand, make you understand, you had your chance, had your chance. But even if the stars and moon collide, I never want you back into my life, you can take your words and all your lies, oh oh oh, I really don't care.

This is my ultimate in your face tune, for when you just don't need him anymore and you're finally past that 'I can't live without you' phase. It's for when you tell them that there's no second chances. 

26. Firework - Katy Perry

You don't have to feel like a waste of space, you're original, cannot be replaced. If you only knew what the future holds, after a hurricane comes a rainbow. Maybe a reason why all the doors are closed, so you could open one that leads you to the perfect road. Like a lightning bolt, your heart will glow...

For when you need a little pick me up to remind you that you're a firework, that something better is going to come along and you don't need anyone because your future is gonna be great.

27. Survivor - Destinys Child

Now that you're out of my life I'm so much better, thought that I'd be weak without you but I'm stronger...

When you refuse to be sad, and decide to be strong straight away rather than moping.

28. Gives You Hell - The All American Rejects

When you see my face hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell, when you walk my way hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell. If you find a man that's worth a damn and treats you well, then he's a fool you're just as well, hope it gives you hell. 

For when you know you're gonna run into your ex at some point so you make yourself look so damn good that he's gonna regret ever leaving you. You know what he didn't deserve you. 

29. Bye Bye Bye - N*Sync

Don't wanna be a fool for you, just another player in your game for two, you may hate me but it aint no lie baby bye, bye, bye.

For when you've realised that you've been played the entire time you've been together, and you tell them you've had enough. 

30. Fighter - Christina Aguilera

I heard you're going round, playing the victim now, well don't even begin feeling I'm the one to blame because you dug your own grave.

For when you're grateful for everything that you've learned from your past relationship and that it's made you a stronger person.

31. 22 - Taylor Swift

It feels like a perfect night, to dress up like hipsters, and make fun of our exes. It feels like a perfect night for breakfast at midnight, to fall in love with strangers. We're happy, free, confused and lonely at the same time. It's miserable and magical oh yeah. Tonight's the night when we forget about the deadlines, it's time.

For when you're hanging with your girls and you look back at all your exes and you know that they were all losers. 

32. Best Thing I Never Had - Beyonce

I know you want me back, it's time to face the facts, that I'm the one who got away and lord knows it would take, another place, another time, another world, another life, thank god I found the good in goodbye. I use to want you so bad, I'm so through with that, cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had, oh you turned out to be the best thing I never had, and I will always be the best thing you never had ... I bet it sucks to be you right now.

For when you can finally see that all the pain you went through was a blessing in disguise & that you would never go back to him.

33. Picture To Burn - Taylor Swift

So watch me strike a match on all my wasted time, in case you haven't heard, as far as I'm concerned you're just another picture to burn.

Ahh, sixteen year old Taylor Swift full of angst that only a teenage girl could possess. I love this song, it's for those moments when you just want rid of everything they ever bought you/gave you. And you realise you could have been sad but you just now it's a huge waste of time.

34. Take A Bow - Rihanna

Don't tell me you're sorry cus you're not, baby when I know you're only sorry you got caught. But you put on quite a show, really had me going, but now it's time to go, curtain's finally closing. That was quite a show, very entertaining, but it's over now. Go on and take a bow.

For when they've said sorry to you time after time and you just can't hear it anymore because you know that they're just saying words to try and make you feel better. 

35. Solo - Demi Lovato

I'd rather go out to a party alone, than to walk around with you on my arm. Now that I'm proud to admit that we're done. Good luck trying to find me.

When you look at them and just know that you're so far above them that any life is better than sharing one with him.

36. Smile - Lily Allen

When you first left me, I was wanting more, but you were fucking that girl next door, what did you do that for? When you first left me, I didn't know what to say, I'd never been on my own that way. I just sat by myself all day. I was so lost back then, but with a little help from my friends, I found a light in the tunnel at the end. Now you're calling me up on the phone, so you can have a little whine and a moan and it's only because you're feeling alone.

When you're looking back at a relationship and how much it messed you up and how now you can look and smile because you not with them anymore.

37. I Found A Boy - Adele

So you thought that I, would crumble to my knees, at the first sign of you crawling back to me. To whisper, 'will you leave your man' cause you swear that this time you can, stand by me, I won't stand by you. Cause I found a boy who I love more, than I ever did you before, so stand beside the river I cried and lay yourself down. Look how you want me now that I don't need you.

For when you've moved on and even though you swore you'd never love again you did anyway and this one is so much better for you.

38. All You Had To Do Was Stay - Taylor Swift

Here you are, calling me up, but I don't know what to say, I've been picking up the pieces of the mess you made. People like you always want back the love they pushed aside, and people like me are gone forever when you say goodbye.

For when there wasn't much else to say but you know that he ruined everything by walking away and there's no way he can just walk back into your life. 

39. Ego - The Saturdays 

And now you wanna pretend that you a superstar, and now you want us to end what's taken you this far. Don't tell me that you're done as far as we go, you need to have a sit down with your ego. When everyone's gone and you are by yourself, you know that your gonna come to me for help, don't tell me that it's time for going solo, you need to knock some sense into your ego.

For when he thinks that he's something special but you know he's not. 

40. Tears Dry on Their Own - Amy Winehouse

But every moment we could snatch, I don't know why I got so attached, it's my responsibility and you don't owe nothing to me, but to walk away I have no capacity. He walks away, the sun goes down, he takes the day but I'm grown, and in your way, in this blue shade, my tears dry on their own.

For when you've finished crying and you let him walk away because there's no hard feelings.

41. No Good For You - Meghan Trainor

Won't you take it from a friend, that boy is not a gentleman and you'll find out soon enough what you're feeling it ain't love. Cause he called me yesterday and he asked me on a date, tried to play you like a fool and that's why I'm calling you.

For when your girls are telling you that your too good for the guy who sweet talks you and who breaks your heart so easily. This is the song to sing along to with your friends and know that someone who isn't 100% honest with you just doesn't love you sweetheart. If a guy goes behind your back and calls your best friend the boy is a tool & is not worth your time.

42. Amnesia - Cheryl Cole

I set myself up for this it was, too good to be true. I believed what you said when you said it, that's what pillow talk can do. Today is another day I get it, your hungry desire I fed it, only gonna let me down if I let it, I just wish that you never said it...

For when you realise that it was all pillow talk. Maybe you were the girl he screwed to get over being screwed (harsh but you know what I mean) and I know it hurts but you also know that you deserve one million times better.

43. I Don't Care - Cheryl

I heard you brought that girl around in half a gown and asked if I'd been there, oh yeah. Ask me how I'm doing now, I scream out loud, I tell 'em I don't care. And I don't care. I don't care. And it feels so fucking good to say I swear, that I don't care, and everywhere there are ordinary hearts that don't play fair. So I don't care.

For when you see them around and you realise that you just don't care about them or their new relationship and you can finally tell them 'I don't care'.

44. A Friendly Goodbye - Bowling For Soup

Cause I loved you, even more than you could ever imagine, here's a friendly goodbye. 5,6,7 aint that a 'b' with an itch, aint that a mother trucker, you can go to h-e double hockey sticks and f yourself. Cause I'm flippin gosh darn sick of all the 's' words you put me through so F U, F U.

For when you want to just tell someone to go to hell because they've put you through so much shit that there's nothing else to say bar F U.

45. Credit - Meghan Trainor

She should be thanking me and sending me some flowers. I taught him everything now he can last for hours, and she'll never know that I made him better for her. So give some credit where it's due, give props to you know, I gave him swagger made him cool, he used to be a fool. So give some credit where its due...

For when you see your ex with his new girl and you know that you made him everything that he know is. You're a star baby, and he's missing you. 

There are so many amazing post breakup songs that I could have put here, but these are the ones which make me get out of bed and realise that he's just a boy & the person who breaks your heart just didn't deserve it in the first place. I hope these help you get through too and make you realise that life does go on.

Then you're like this...

                       

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Meeting Someone, Falling For Them & Then Moving On

Casually going about your normal life, not caring about anything

Flirting with everyone because lets face it you're hot & single and life's great

Working and living life to the max (going home and binging on tv)

Meeting a new person

Not even really paying attention

Realising they're flirting with you

Flirting back

Telling all your friends about him

Them telling you to be careful

                                      

The stress of dating

Being all cute and kissing whenever, because hey kissing is great

Feeling genuinely happy for the first time

Taking yourself off the market

Realising you're falling for him

Confessing it to your mutual friend

Being all cute together

Him ending it out of nowhere 

Making the 911 call to your besties 

Them telling you that you deserve better

That you're too good for him

That someone better will come along

But all you can think is

So you just decide to lie in bed

Your friends call and ask if you're okay

You tell them your fear

They tell you that you're gonna be okay

And tell you something that you hadn't realised yet

Eventually you get tired of feeling sad

You tell yourself off for being so naive

Then you realise it's not your fault, it's his 

In public you're like

But with your best friends your like

You refuse to let him know that he's got to you

Showing him what he's missing is your prerogative

Each day gets easier 

You find out he's got back with his ex, who just happens to be a friend

Her talking about them right in front of you

Him still flirting with you

Her tagging him in statuses on Facebook

Acting like you're not arsed

Knowing you're better than her

He wants to be friends, but you know that things can't go back to what they were

When you eventually stop being mad

Making an ultimate playlist & dancing it out

Being able to pull through because you have awesome friends

Realising you deserve better (even though you still want to be with him)

Finally deciding that sorry is just a word

Realising that he's a massive idiot and you're far too good for him

He texts you out of the blue

But you're stronger now 

You know you're gonna be okay.

Just dance it out, life's awesome

You're gonna be okay friend